Uh, wow. I hate that image of the ‘exotic Asian’, it’s way too prevalent and it pretty much fetishizes Asian girls no matter what they do or how they dress/act. The girl you’re describing is creepy and needs to back off.
I don’t even understand it. Like, I was ok with the initial compliments, but then she kept on bringing my race into it and that was not ok. The first couple times I met her, I was in my work uniform and I looked like shit. Where the fuck did she get off saying any of that? I’m not here to be fetishised (nor is anyone else) and it’s making me angry.jagged1 replied to your post: Angry rant under the cut. Mainly about race and…
What. The. Fuck. Tell her to back off! Maybe do it nicely, but basically tell her “Look, thanks for the compliments, but stop trying to fucking change me, and get something else to talk about because this? CREEPY/WEIRD/NOT OKAY.”
*sob* Thanks~ xD; I know she doesn’t mean anything by it, but yeah… that paragraph was full of actual quotes and holy crap yes, it’s really creepy. I’m never going to go anywhere with her because, like I said, I simply don’t know her nor her friends so I don’t give a shit. I might tell her, but I really, REALLY don’t plan on seeing her again. Ever. And if I do, I’m ignoring her as much as I can. I might keep that line in mind though if she ever accosts me again though. Dx